14p
The most painful, the most wonderful - this is the Bibical understanding of marriage, and the there has never been a more important time to lift it up and give it prominece in out culture.
24p
They said that "compatibility" above all meant someone who showed a "wiilingness to take them as they are and not change them." "More than a few of the men expressed resentment at women who try not to change the .... Some of the men describe marital compatibility as finding a woman who will 'fit into their life.' 'If you are truly compatible, then you don't have to change,' one man commented."
33p
We never know whom we marry; we just think we do. Or even if we first marry the right person, just give it a while and he or she will change. For marriage, being [the enormous thing it is] means we are not the same person after we have entered it. The primay problem is ... learning how to love and care for the stranger to whom you find yourself married.
